| Have you ever been driving to your place of employment, sitting at
your desk, or even been in a meeting at work and think to yourself that
there has got to be a better way? There has got to be a better way to make
a living? If you are like me, I bet you have. I have sat in meetings
listening to the "so called" expert managers discussing ways to save money
for the company, what cut backs are going to take place, and how many
people are going to lose their jobs in feeble attempts to save the company
money. I thought to myself that if I would put
as much energy into saving money and thinking of ways to generate money
for myself and my family, as I do for this company, I could generate
more income than this rat race W2 job is paying me. Now stop right there.
You owe it to yourself to hear me out, let me give you the rest of the
story.
One day after feeling like the rat race was getting the best of me, I
started looking at other options to generate income. Very few jobs would
provide an income to match what I was already receiving. So another job was
not the answer. I asked myself what I wanted to have that I didn't already have, my wish. I came up with the following, just to name a few:
1. More freedom.
2. More time with my
family.
3. The ability to see my income reflect my efforts.
4. The ability to
provide for other family members.
5. The ability to give to others in
need, to make a difference.
After looking at these, I quickly determined that a job would not
allow me to accomplish what I truly wanted to achieve in life. If I bury
these desires that I have for my life, my entrepreneurial spirit, I could be holding back from
being a blessing to others feeling guilty and selfish. If I think of life as a chain of dominos lined
up. If I was not in place where I was supposed to be, fulfilling my
destiny, then the line of dominos could not continue to flow and others
could then be affected by my actions or lack there of. It is true, that giving to others and seeing the
surprise, an emotion of thankfulness on their face is truly moving and
completely rewarding. So much better to give then to receive.
After determining that another job was not the way to go I looked around
at different options, businesses franchises, home based businesses, etc. I
determined for myself after reading many books and articles as well as
spending many evenings
of research, that
investing in real estate was the initial way to go for me. It would allow
me to move towards achieving my wish list and was something that just seemed to fit
- it
filled the void for this season. For example - I looked at a real estate deal just the
other day that will provide me with a net profit of $25,000. Now how many of those types of deals do you need to meet your
families needs? Real estate is truly a great investment vehicle of the past,
present and future. There will always be a need for real estate investors.
That doesn't' mean that I'll be investing in real estate forever, it does
mean that it is the vehicle for this season to achieve our personal short
and midterm goals. The future is bright and holds many things most of
which if I had full knowledge of I would be scared speechless. Take it one step at
a time and fully live the season you are in to the fullest.
Here are a couple important things to keep in mind:
1. It is ok to have gone to school succeeded in a particular career
field and still not feel complete. If you are one of those people that has
been educated and climbed the ladder, to only feel that void inside of you, there is a reason for that. There are
endless examples of people that have gone to advanced schools, spent tons
of money and successfully climbed the corporate ladder of their earlier
dreams, yet to find another career path to walk in. No where is it
written that a person can't succeed in several arenas of life. There are
seasons that each and every one of us go through in life. Each season can
bring different opportunities to us. It is our task to look at those
opportunities and determine if that is the opportunity for this season in
our life. I recall years ago a friend of mine offered to give me two
rental homes that he needed to physically move because he sold the property to
some big
developers who were going to build hotels there. Being nervous and
uneducated in real estate at the time and being focused on my career
building that I went to school for, I rejected the offer! Yes, I know what
you are thinking and you are
right, I was very stupid. Now I look back and use that as an example, a
learning tool for what not to do and I no longer reject any offer until I
fully examine it. I have also realized that it might be, that it just
wasn't the right season. I could have
made thousands of dollars with that generous offer from my friend and
embarked on a totally different voyage. In
those days thousands might as well have been millions! It was my friends
way of showing me there is another way and trying to give me an
opportunity. In that season I was so focused on my career and
climbing that proverbial ladder that I didn't
want to look at anything else. Now the seasons have changed and I see the
light, the opportunities, and the ways to my goals which I desire in my
life. Each of us need to listen to that small voice inside of us, to
dream dreams, and to never stop reaching for them.
2. Each and everyone of us has some sort of purpose in life. I don't
care who you are, where you have come from or what your bank account
balance is. Look around you and see all the different people that are
sitting, walking or working. They are all different, all unique and they
all have different things in life that they are good at. You may say but I'm not good at
anything. Hush - yes you are. You might not be a Walter Payton or Clint
Eastwood or a Rembrandt but if you examine yourself closely, you will find
something that you are good at. Keep in mind - that to be successful you must erase the bad
things that have happened to you as well as the mistakes which exist on
your life
memory tape and replace them with the good things that are in your life,
focus on what you desire - your
dreams for the future. You can't and won't get far in life by looking
through the rear view mirror while trying to drive through life. You must determine what makes you happy, what gives
you that warm fuzzy feeling inside when you think or do that particular
thing and focus in on that. If we find that particular thing that makes us
tick then we will succeed in it and find true happiness.
In conclusion, if you are hearing that small voice inside of you say
"there has got to be a better way" then start by: asking yourself what it is that
you are good at, what it is that makes you feel good inside when you think
of it and what it is
that will accomplish the things you wish for in life. |